Pulling Down the Moon

Fertility Massage for Men?

June 6, 2023
Tamara Quinn

Written By:

Beth Heller

Co-Founder of Pulling Down the Moon, MS, Reg. Yoga Teacher

Cassie Harrison

Reviewed for Accuracy By:

Meredith Nathan

Director of Massage

When we discuss fertility massage, it’s often assumed this practice is designed only for women. It’s true that the benefits for women are vast, but men shouldn’t feel left out! The male reproductive system completely mirrors the female reproductive system (in function if not in location). The Fallopian tubes are comparable to the vas deferens, as both are systems of transportation in the body. The ovaries are comparable to the testes, both producing the carrier’s ‘seed’. The uterus and the penis both allow the safe passage of that ‘seed’. And though the hormones dominating men and women are different, both can be negatively impacted by stress.

Abdominal and sacral massage can positively impact circulation, lymphatic flow, and digestive congestion in both men and women. Keeping in mind that restricted blood flow can impact nerve function (including the nerves of the reproductive organs), lymph movement helps the body’s systems of detoxification (and toxicity can impact sperm quality) and digestive stagnation can actually affect hormonal balance, the connection between massage and fertility for men becomes clear. And since the sperm live for 60-70 days, receiving fertility massage while making positive lifestyle choices for several months is ideal!


Lastly, who can argue with the benefits of an stress-reducing massage during a highly stressful time? Lowering cortisol levels, the stress hormone, can boost libido, increase energy, provide more restful sleep, and help promote hormone balance (as highlighted in this men's health feature). And perhaps most importantly, it can increase your sense of well-being during an often tense and emotional time. Our culture doesn’t often celebrate or create space for men’s emotions, or their need for self-care…but during a fertility journey, both are vital to creating the endurance that will go the distance. 


Try a massage today with any of our practitioners in Chicago or Highland Park! Even better - book back to back acupuncture and massage services with your partner to make it easier to get started!


Meet Meredith Nathan

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Meredith Nathan, L.M.T., a distinguished graduate of Northwestern University and the Chicago School of Massage Therapy, holds certifications in various therapeutic techniques. In 2008, she created the Fertility Enhancing Massage (FEM) Protocol™, becoming an approved provider of Continuing Education in Fertility Massage in 2017. Meredith is committed to empowering individuals and families to achieve radiant health through a blend of holistic modalities grounded in modern science, reflecting her dedication to setting new standards of excellence in holistic fertility.

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